Time to shape up!!

Ok, so I am writing about this in here hoping that it will force me to keep up with it and not give up aka get lazy!! I am trying my first Crossfit class tonight. Kind of worried I might get my a$$ kicked, but I am ready for the challenge...

My goal is to lose about 10lbs. and make everything nice and firm and defined. I am NOT looking to be a body builder by any means, but want to be cut and run around in the sun looking as cute as Cara does in a swimsuit (not possible) lol. If you all read this, ask me often how my workouts are going, HOLD ME TO IT! I have an amazing track record for doing something for a week or so and then just stopping!! What the heck is wrong with me? I want to be serious this time, and if I am not posting pics of how amazing I look ;) in the next 6 months you will know that my track record holds true! So cheers to me sticking to working out and looking FIERCE by this summer...

Potty Training!!!!

Oh my how I dreaded trying to potty train Cara!

About a month and a half ago I decided to spend a day at home with Cara and work on potty training. I let her run around pantless all morning and when I noticed some signals I would try to put her on the potty. Boy was she NOT INTERESTED. She would arch her back and scream everytime I would try and place her on the potty. I ended up having to put a diaper on here so she would go... poor thing would hold it for hours because she didn't want to go on the potty. So after a very frustrating day I decided Cara wasn't ready and wasn't even going to try and address the issue again until after her 2nd birthday.

Well about a week ago, Cara came up to me and said "potty" I asked her if she wanted to sit on the big girl potty and go and to my surpise she said "Yes!" I put her on there and she went! I could hardly control my excitement. I made a HUGE deal about it and gave her an m&m. Cara was so excited and she hasn't looked back. We have even ventured out of the house a few times and she has gone potty in strange places. She has obviously had a few accidents and still wakes up in the mornings and after naps wet. We wear pull ups when we will be gone for more than a few hours, at night, and at naps. She has been doing so well and I am sooo proud of her!

The point of this blog post is to tell you not to push potty training too hard. Now I know that most kids won't just tell you they are ready like Cara did. I got extremely lucky! Give it a try here and there and you will know when they are ready! Happy Potty Training mommies!! :)

Family, cheer, and catching up!

Hello all:

It has been way too long since I have been on here to entertain you with my words of wisdom! :) Over the past months a lot has been going on in the Wolpert household! We FINALLY made some headway on the house!!!! Bathroom is finished 99% of the trim is finished, backsplash is done. etc. I will post pics soon! Pretty sure Chris and I are broke now, but our house looks amazing!! <3

I have been SOOO busy with cheer, it is crazy. Both my JV and Varsity had a great season and Stadium has put themselves on the map as a competitive co-ed cheerleading team! Never thought at 27 years old I would be so involved in cheerleading still, but the way my life is going it seems this might just be my career and I couldn't be happier about it! A team of past cheerleaders around my age are trying to get a team together and if it all works out I am very excited to "come out of retirement" and have one last hoorah performing and competing again.

One last thing I want to talk about is family. At the end of the day family is all you have! I just want to remind everyone that family is so important and life is short. Don't live with regrets and surround yourself with the people that are important to you the most. I am so fortunate to have the family that I do! These past few weeks have made me realize just how important family is and to cherish every minute you get to spend with them. SO... call that grandparent you haven't talked to in a while, call and check in on your sister or brother, because life is short and you don't want to look back wishing you would of spent more time with someone.

Love and Marriage

07-07-07

This is going to be a sappy blog post.... sorry in advance :)

I am madly in love with my husband. I am very happy with they way my life has turned out. I have a beautiful home, a job that I love, an amazing family, etc.

Thinking back to my freshmen year of college, if someone would have told me I was going to marry Wolpert our Sorority's house boy. I would have said they were crazy! Chris and I met my freshmen year and were acquaintences for the next few years. I was interested in partying and being single and Chris wasn't even on my mind, and I wasn't on his either. Around Junior year we become close friends.... strictly friends. (I know there are people to this day that don't believe this) There was a lot of speculation about us because we hung out everyday, but like said before JUST AS FRIENDS! Towards the end of my Junior year he sat me down and told me that he couldn't be just friends with me anymore. He was falling for me. I had feelings toward him too, but wasn't quite ready. I was scared that if it didn't work out I was going to lose the best thing that ever happened to me. Being friends after a break up usually never lasts... needless to say as you all know that eventually I decided that it was worth seeing if we could work out. We then shared our first kiss and the rest is history!

Marriage is something sacred and not to be taken lightly. I get frustrated when people think that marriage isn't final and if it doesn't work out that there's always divorce. There are definitley some cases where divorce needs to happen, I am not saying that people should never get divorces. I am saying that marriage is hard, it isn't easy. It is something that you will work on for the rest of your life and will never be perfect. There will be good times and bad times and just because you may be going through a bad time... divorce isn't always the answer.

Chris and I have had our bad times and our good times. We are constantly learning about each other each and every day. There is no one else in the entire world that I would want to spend my life with. We have done so much in our three years of marriage. We bought a rental property, got 2 dogs, bought a house for oursleves, had a child, changed jobs, etc. We have built a lil' family of our very own.

I am proud of what Chris and I have accomplished in 3 short years and am excited to see what the future holds for us! I love Chris and Cara more than anything in the world and wouldn't trade my life for anything! :) Thanks for reading...

Words for new mommy's

I am sitting her going through pictures of Cara and crying! Where has the time gone? When did she become a toddler? It is absolutely amazing how much infants change in a year. Not only physically but mentally. They go from being completely helpless and needing us to tend to their every need and even hold their heads up for them, to walking, running, and talking in a years time...

Everyone always says that the love for your child is different than any other kind of love. Everyone is soooo right! I never thought I could love someone as much as I do Cara, I would literally do anything, if it meant she was safe.

If I can give any advice to new parents out there, it would be this....

1.) Cuddle cuddle cuddle with your little one, but also remember that we need to teach them that we can not pick them up every second of the day.

2.) A schedule is the best way to go, with a newborn and even a toddler, your schedule will vary a bit from day to day as far as time goes, but try to stick to the same thing everyday as best as possible. (i.e. for bedtime do bottle or breast, bath, books, bed) I have found that when Cara was young I fed her her last meal of the day before her bath and it helped tremendously getting her to fall asleep on her own.

3.) IT WILL NOT GET EASIER WHEN THEY ARE OLDER!!! Now, what I mean by this.... When Cara was an infant I didn't go out to eat much, or have a babysitter much because I always thought in the back of my mind that it would be easier to take her out when she is older. Boy, was I wrong. When they are newborns they sleep... yeah, you may have to feed them once in the restaurant or go to the bathroom if breastfeeding, but then they go right back to sleep. NOW, OMG I can't keep her still. She wants to run around the restaurant and go say Hi to everyone and play. While everyone else thinks its adorable that a little 1 year old is walking up and saying hi while they are eating... I am still starving! lol

4.) Don't stress over what they say in the books. I was an avid book reader when I found out I was pregnant. I was reading everything "No cry sleep solution" Baby Whisperer", "What to Expect When You're Expecting" Every book said something different and I was going crazy trying to implement things from the book. I finally had to stop reading. Every single baby is different and something that may have worked for Cara and I will not work for you and your baby. Do read and educate yourself about what to expect and how baby's should be developing and what they need, but take that information from each book and turn into something that will work for you and your baby!

5.) Take Pictures!!!!!! I can't take credit for this idea, not sure where I got it from. I took a picture of Cara every month in the same chair with the same stuffed animals around her. It was a fun thing that I looked forward to every month, and comparing the pictures was so fun. I put them in the last part of her first year scrapbook and displayed it at her birthday! It was a HUGE hit.

Cara at 1 month, 2months, 6 months and 1 year

running running running

For as long as I can remember I have hated running. I am not a person who can run around a track 20 times or run on a treadmill for 45 minutes. My idea of exercise is dancing, stunting (cheer stuff, for those of you none cheer folk), chasing Cara, or playing soccer.

I seem to never be able to stick to an exercise regime. It's either I don't have anyone to stunt with, or the soccer teams don't play on nights I can do, etc. There is always something to keep me from exercise. The biggest "something" that comes up is MYSELF!

Having a child really changes your perspective in life. Cara will grow up and form her opinions about love, life, etc. from what I teach her. I am responsible for teaching Cara about these things. I want to instill in her that family is important, honesty is always best, and taking care of yourself mentally and physically is the key to a happy life! How can I teach her these things if I don't practice them myself?

I don't know if it is because I am older or because I have less time for myself than ever before, but I have found comfort in running...yes the thing I have hated the most! When I run I feel liberated, I feel like I am showing Cara that being healthy is important. I am taking control of my life, and leading by example.

Now Cara and Chris are motivation enough, but for some extra motivation to get my "run on" I purchased a NikeFit Sportband...

It keeps track of how many miles you run, your pace, calories burned, etc. You can upload it to the nike site and keep track of your workouts! A fun little thing to add some excitment to running! My goal is to one day run in a marathon, will keep you posted on that though.... Not going crazy yet! :)

It's Wedding Season...

It's seems this summer everyone is getting married. Chris and I have 5...yes 5 weddings that we are invited to this summer, we have been to one so far. 4 left to go!!!! It is going to be an expensive next few months buying shower gifts, attending bachelor/bachelorette parties, and buying wedding gifts.

There are a million and one sites on how to do a wedding on a budget, but how about how to buy wedding presents on a budget? Weddings are a special event and it's not something that you can bring a $20.00 gift off of their registry too. A way to save money and get a very special gift for someone, is a site that I love called personalizationmall.com They have a ton of different inexpensive gifts to choose from. Some of my favorite are the wedding ornament that is on sale for $11.97 right now. What a great way for a newlywed couple to spend their first christmas together!

Another favorite is the wedding frame on sale for $19.95

Last but not least, this vase would make a great wedding or shower gift. It is $32.95....

Hope this gives everyone some great ideas on buying wedding gifts on a budget!